Facebook Publication Date: 43549.41875 This as well: For the purposes of our focus here in this space, that of race, I assert that there is nothing about feeling contempt or performing contemptuousness that is at all beneficial for those whom ‘enlightened’ white people say they stand with and for. To lean into contempt is not…

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Facebook Publication Date: 43549.210416667 Permalink: https://www.facebook.com/laceonrace/posts/pfbid09DpfLf7U2d2i1xtjDXBJkokDtmFiat1Q9RA64b4oEWA565UF81ra9Y4nBE3jQGgul Post Type: Other Caption Type: N/A Is Cross Post: 0 Is Share: 1 Impressions: 0 Reach: 0 Reactions: 6 Comments: 4 Shares: 4  

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Facebook Publication Date: 43548.960416667 https://www.boredpanda.com/friend-explains-invisible-poverty/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=BPFacebook&fbclid=IwAR07eIwP0w4JMarfbmciK60ltjqwqU6rJXUvmYzRFXvXMWIdHjTEYZtZ_Og Permalink: https://www.facebook.com/laceonrace/posts/pfbid02LVE3Bznu2imT7YjVtznfTkWqkLohQ7hrByjugzJm6pgcnHiFTRYWqrLnwDa4wtEYl Post Type: Link Caption Type: N/A Is Cross Post: 0 Is Share: 0 Impressions: 1 Reach: 1 Reactions: 12 Comments: 22 Shares: 17  

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Facebook Publication Date: 43548.91875 Five Winning and Five Losing Relational Strategies; adapted from Terry Real– Five Losing Relational Strategies: Being Right Controlling the Situation Retaliation (offending from the victim position) Unbridled Self-Expression Withdrawal (and ghosting/flouncing) Five Winning Relational Strategies: Shifting from Complaint to Request Speaking Out With Love And Savvy Responding with Generosity Empowering Cherishing…

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Facebook Publication Date: 43548.91875 From the Friday Presentation: Adapted from Terry Real Five Losing and Winning Relational Strategies Five Losing Relational Strategies: Being Right Controlling the Situation Retaliation (Offending from the Victim Position) Unbridled Self-Expression Withdrawal Five Winning Relational Strategies: Shifting from Complaint to Request Speaking Out With Love And Savvy Responding with Generosity Empowering…

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Facebook Publication Date: 43548.91875 From the slides of Lace on Race’s Friday Presentation Full Respect Living means making a commitment that, no matter what, you will not drop below the lines of respectful behavior to another human being.You can be passionate, you can be assertive, you can be firm, you can confront and dismantle toxic…

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Facebook Publication Date: 43548.91875 Required Reading: Mark “done” when finished April is coming early this year. We are going to spend the month of April doing a deep dive into relational ethics. My hand got sort of forced, so I am presenting you with an intro now. Embedded in another subthread is an adapted article…

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Facebook Publication Date: 43548.79375 Money bail must end. It is a racial, and a moral, issue. https://www.theroot.com/locking-up-black-people-is-big-business-1833524257?utm_medium=socialflow&utm_source=theroot_facebook&fbclid=IwAR23kZMBImPVP-M2ThkXANph2uQKVs9X5VpEhuvvP4V8GtbCEy27TBt6feI Permalink: https://www.facebook.com/laceonrace/posts/pfbid025my4mngqX3qh1wDv74DVmqtLtBpkHShzXHfASMxULeSiyRNfwSbKh3cGpJR3QBwCl Post Type: Link Caption Type: N/A Is Cross Post: 0 Is Share: 0 Impressions: 0 Reach: 0 Reactions: 6 Comments: 6 Shares: 3  

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Facebook Publication Date: 43548.335416667 The opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is contempt. Permalink: https://www.facebook.com/laceonrace/posts/pfbid0DBGp3hT4NQBARFC4UGs1dv2CZmyWhfAGjxYdeJKtdvcKfVQfpnUiqrg3x4c2GCNtl Post Type: Text Caption Type: N/A Is Cross Post: 0 Is Share: 0 Impressions: 0 Reach: 0 Reactions: 3 Comments: 20 Shares: 0  

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Facebook Publication Date: 43548.29375 Lace on Race sez: Contempt for white people you feel are beneath you is not allyship. Full stop. More later. Permalink: https://www.facebook.com/laceonrace/posts/pfbid0PSuSRp8mrpzKUg8ky7JMbw1wNhH43NkW27ag9e3j39CoZHHYZN6KTwUo2FjhKJ7al Post Type: Text Caption Type: N/A Is Cross Post: 0 Is Share: 0 Impressions: 0 Reach: 0 Reactions: 12 Comments: 117 Shares: 1  

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