Blog Posts

  • On Cross Racial Friendships

    When we are ready, and I hope it’s sooner rather than later, we need to have a candid conversation on cross cultural relationships and what white women demand and feel entitled to from people of color. We are not there yet, but we need to be. That means you all need to have the skills…

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  • On The Subject Of Book Learnin’-There Are No Orange Trees on Amazon.com

    One of the participants at GameSchoolCon asked for books that she could read to begin her journey as a fledgling, and tender person just beginning her walk toward racial justice. I hesitated. Not because there are no books that could jump start her process, arguably there are some. The main reason I hesitated was because…

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  • The Other 337 Days

    As we know, GameSchoolCon coincided with the start of Black History Month! I was immersed all weekend at GSC, but this week I am ready to remember with full intention. I wrote the essay, found below,a response. What are you doing with your curriculums, gaming, soft skills, or workplace, congregations, neighbors and family; what are…

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  • Lace on Race at GameSchoolCon–Living In The Generations

    (This is crossposted to GameSchoolCon, a partner with Lace on Race, and is part of our Educational focus for February. We are focusing here on the educational part, but for those of us in the LoR community, I invite you to do what we almost always do, which is to pivot to race. So read…

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  • What a February! Buckle Up!

    To kick February off right, Lace on Race is at the GameSchoolCon in Irvine, which is led under the steady hand of Sasha, one of our community members! I love GameSchoolCon, not least for its commitment to what I call an effortless ethos of inclusion, but also for reminding us all that living in a…

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  • Bruised Oranges Matter Too

    I shared this meme, and my commentary, on my personal page today: So you won’t have to immediately click through to see my whole commentary, I will include it here below. “Our stories may never get picked up by Lifetime or Oprah, but we still matter. For some of us, what looks mediocre to the…

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  • The Selling of Martin Luther King

    This is a reprint of an article I wrote nine years ago for a San Diego progressive paper, The OB Rag, in which I decried the distortion of the legacies of the man we honor this weekend. It’s still relevant. Unfortunately, if anything, it’s even more so, with both corporations, and even more troubling those…

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