Blog Posts

  • Early September Invitation to Engagement

    This month’s Ask comes hard on the heels of August, one of the most important months in the history of Lace on Race. After weeks of planning, we devised games which were fun, to be sure, but also informative, and took you on a tour of our newly refreshed website.  Y’all. We have poured so…

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  • September Ask from Julie

    Hello again community! Last time I wrote was in April. It’s always a blessing to abide in this community. At the time, we were celebrating the birds and the bees, flowers in bloom and the beautiful aromas of new growth.  We are transitioning to fall – leaves are changing, trees will start shedding, wafts of…

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  • Bruised Oranges Matter Too – Revisited

    At Lace on Race, we talk a lot–a lot–about capacity, agency, and volition.  This is an essay where we take a deep dive into these three elements for reliable and effective applied praxis.  The commentary was meant as an encouragement, but morphed (as so many of my encouragements tend to do) into an exhortation–that not…

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  • The 6 Tenets: Tenet 5 – Grow Up

    When people lose their patience with the process and or the method–and or with me– it’s this next tenet which gets mentioned most, either covertly or overtly.  My insistence on growing up; of bringing our full adult selves into the work of racial justice chaps a lot of people’s hides.  I understand why; on the…

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  • The Six Tenets: Tenet 4 – Grow In

    Interior Work Ensures Effective Outward Praxis The tenet we are going to speak about now, Grow In, is an important element; it’s in what could be a tagline, right next to our North Star. It’s crucial. It is what differentiates Lace on Race from other spaces. Our insistence that interior work is a linchpin of…

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  • A woman crouches next to two planters. A tender shoot grows from the first planter. The woman is dropping a handful of seeds into the other. To the left of the woman the the text reads, "I can also see where we, where I, didn't heed.Teacher never scowled, but always crisply pointed me back. Back to the basics." The bottom of the graphic shows a seed below the earth and new growth breaking the surface with text that reads, "Plowing and planting season is here. Dig deep."

    The Six Tenets: Tenet Three-Plant Roots

    Gather the tools. Invest in the new. Read the directions. Then follow them. Ask for help. Raise your hand and just ask. Ask and watch and learn. Plant mustard greens. Plow over. Do it again. And again. Amend. Anywhere weeds grow, good growth can happen. These are the lessons embedded in this installment of the…

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  • image of a sunny sky, sprouts behind the text and three women with arms wrapped around them. The phrase: "Our orchard will thrive, not because we farmed out the work that is ours alone to do, but because each of us knows the sweat and the effort and the faithfulness behind each tree. Each of us can admire soil streaked overalls and jeans; and smile at smudged noses. Each of us can smell the soil we have worked, side by side and shoulder to shoulder."

    The Six Tenets: Tenet 2 – Dig Deep – ALL NEW

    I remember digging.  Easy digging.  On the beach, in a bathing suit with ruffles on the bottom, just after eating sandwiches and apples with a light dusting of sand; muddy feet and sunbonnets on a perfect San Diego beach day.  My sister and I, with plastic buckets and pails, making sandcastles and mud pies, while…

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  • The images shows two black women on a blush-pink background. The woman in the foreground has long black hair and is wearing a pale pink blouse. The woman behind her has auburn hair and is wearing a jade green camisole. The Lace on Race logo with an orange is at the top. The text reads, "Black women have been leading the conversation at what healthy relating can look like, and not only in workplaces."

    The Six Tenets: Tenet 1 – Lean in

    When I first penned this essay, we examined the real dissonance between what Sheryl Sandberg exhorted women to do and the real difference in realities between the world in which Sandberg lives–and the very specific, Eurocentric, economically and socially privileged cohort to whom she was speaking–and the lives of the vast majority of women carved…

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