Lace on Faith–First Night of Hanukkah

Tikkun olam has become a catchphrase for social justice in contemporary Jewish life—and for good reason. Our emphasis on repairing the world speaks to something centrally Jewish: our belief in human responsibility. Jewish worship isn’t just about contemplation or petition, it’s about action. We don’t just sit around believing in God, or asking God for things and having faith that it will all work out for the best. We are empowered and expected to act.

8 NIGHTS, 8 JEWISH VALUES: REFLECTIONS FOR CHANUKAH ON THE JEWISH OBLIGATION TO BUILD A BETTER WORLD –Sarah Hurwitz

For our first walk in the fragrance of Lace on Faith, we marvel at the flickering candle of the First Night of the Festival of Lights.

Each night, we will together consider portions of the essay by Sarah Hurwitz, and reflect upon how each of these values align with the values of racial justice. It is fitting indeed that this first night guides our minds to the concept of Tikkun Olam. We are here to repair the torn; to mend the rending.

It is indeed a responsibility. One that, if we are truly serious about our thirst for a changed world, cannot be shirked. If we are truly serious, it means we cannot just hope, or rather, cannot only hope. We cannot anticipate and hunger for a better world we have no intention of helping to birth.

To accept this responsibility is sobering, even in the lightness; even in the dance of the flickering candle.

It is not enough to watch others stitch. Not enough to hold our breath and hope the seams made by millions of others in the flickering light of this First Night will hold.

No. For us to fully enter into the concept of Tikkun, we must each wield our needles. We must learn the skillful ways of the seamstress; how to mend without pucker, or warping, or, crucially, of further tearing of the world’s cloth.

As we strive to mend, we must take care to never, ever, create further harm.

We must see and acknowledge our place in the tapestry and enter deeply in, so deeply that we may not see the whole of the design, but still determine with whole heart to do our part, our portion of the whole, and trust that the pattern, buttressed by our own tiny, seemingly insignificant stitches will align with and enhance the whole.

The unique threads we have each been given is ours alone; we alone are responsible for them, and while we are free to hold on to our singular threads, and the tapestry will still hold beauty and truth without us, still we are not absolved from this hoarding should we decide not to contribute our portion. The tapestry may not be ultimately diminished, but we, tightly clutching onto our individual threads, certainly will be. We must never drop a stitch at the expense of those we stand with and on whose behalf we walk.

Sometimes it will not be pretty from our close up, yet so limited view. Our needles will sometimes prick; leaving our very blood as part of the tapestry, visceral reminders of the work we do. We do not hide it; it adds depth and heft.

So we walk, and we stitch, and we sustain with our own orange trees.

And another First Night ends.


14 responses to “Lace on Faith–First Night of Hanukkah”

  1. Kathy Avatar
    Kathy

    “…to be in the room, one needs to be trained, ready, aware.”
    “….trained and ready to participate in my purpose in collaboration with others.”

    Working through this just now—collaborating with others who are trained and ready for their purpose—working toward harmony, developing shared vision, applying the lab work here at LoR to our context.

  2. Lacey L Avatar
    Lacey L

    “We must never drop a stitch at the expense of those we stand with and on whose behalf we walk.”
    I really love all of this imagery. I am guilty of getting distracted on social media and ‘dropping stitches’.
    I also at times feel that I don’t have anything to say worthwhile, or that I can’t find the words that I’m looking for…
    The idea that the quilt will come together as a whole, beautiful tapestry is such a hopeful image.
    It is easier for me to log into Facebook because I use my cell phone, but the work is too important to put aside and I am grateful to have this new platform that we can use… my stitches may be ‘messy’, but I can make more time to check in and avoid ‘dropped stitches’ that hurt the whole community.
    Thank you for this, Lace. It is beautiful.

  3. Marlise Avatar
    Marlise

    “We cannot anticipate and hunger for a better world we have no intention of helping to birth.”

    I also have to recognize the communal nature of surrounding visions to help birth into existence. Anticipation of needs, preparation for conflict or problems, readiness for waves of labor. I have to be trained and ready to participate in my purpose while collaborating with others. No one is the head in that room, any more than the next. But to be in the room, one needs to be trained, ready, and aware.

  4. Alexis Klein Avatar
    Alexis Klein

    You’re welcome.

    Rereading this I’m seeing a few things in my original post that need work or are incorrect. I separated myself from what was being discussed. I’m a white woman. Period. I also talked about being a part of the world. I don’t want to be a part of this world. I want to be a part of this space, our space. There’s a difference because the world is racist and anti-Black. I don’t want to be a part of that.

  5. Lace Watkins Avatar
    Lace Watkins

    I just finished the Hanukkah essay for Third Night and the Christmas message. I will return to this tomorrow. Thanks for responding.

  6. Alexis Klein Avatar
    Alexis Klein

    Yes you can.

  7. Lace Watkins Avatar
    Lace Watkins

    May I make an observation?

  8. Alexis Klein Avatar
    Alexis Klein

    I’m not a seamstress, but I am a crafter, and this is a great way for me to look at my place and work. I have God-given talent but if I don’t work on it I won’t grow into a better crafter. I won’t be where I need to be as part of the world. I need to use my talents to figure out my place and how fit.

  9. Christin Joy Spoolstra Avatar
    Christin Joy Spoolstra

    I’ve been letting sloppy stitches stand in my life, being proud of the bare minimum because I least I have my needle out. I’ve been dipping my toe because at least that means I’m at the beach.

    I love how you pull this back to practice practice practice because we should be wanting to up our game, develop our skill… That’s the only way the stitches will hold and the repair will be lasting

  10. Christin Joy Spoolstra Avatar
    Christin Joy Spoolstra

    “empowered and expected to act”
    I think I’ve been holding tightly to my string, looking for just the right patch to stitch. If I keep waiting, I may never make any contribution to the tapestry.

  11. Laura Berwick Avatar
    Laura Berwick

    I am a person who has threaded a needle to mend my clothing. I have felt industrious and frugal for doing so, but when all is said and done, I’m a pretty sloppy seamstress. The tears get fixed and the buttons affixed, but it’s never the neatest job.

    And I’m not much of a clothes horse, so I’m generally okay with that. But this metaphor has me really thinking. Because “good enough” on my button down shirt isn’t GOOD enough for real, seamless repair.

    You know what would probably make me a better needlewoman? Practice. I did a lot of hand stitching just this month on Christmas gifts for my nieces. And by the time I finished, my stitches were so clean and even and tight, it was beautiful.

    So I see a lot for me here. I need to do better, and not be so proud of the bare, messy minimum. I need to practice practice practice. And I need to strive to always mend and never rend. I might have to step back and undo some stitches when I mess up. But I am committed to doing the restitching as many times as is needed for a clean, tidy, and lasting repair.

  12. Deb Chymiak-Isanhart Avatar
    Deb Chymiak-Isanhart

    This is beautiful. I have long loved the image of finding where I am needed in the tapestry, as well as the idea of so many different people weaving and sewing together to make something new. But I have never considered the image also speaking to repairing what has been damaged or to mind my needles, lest I cause more harm. Thank you for that.

    Minding my needles makes me think of how easy it is, especially for WW, to show up to the sewing circle and just dive in any where without considering (or asking) where their stitches are needed. Or to only want to work on the section that is the prettiest or easiest to get their needle through. Or to decide the design is wrong and begin criticizing without ever trying to understand why the work is being done the way it is being

  13. Kathy Kratchmer Avatar
    Kathy Kratchmer

    “For us to fully enter into the concept of Tikkun, we must each wield our needles. We must learn the skillful ways of the seamstress; how to mend without pucker, or warping, or, crucially, of further tearing of the world’s cloth.”

    I’m thinking this is a mirror image of what we are called to be and do to make the world safer for Black people. it is not enough to know, to have and hold the threads and to see the worn and torn, the ripped and cut places and not begin the work of weaving them in.

    {This is such a beautiful piece. Thank you.}

  14. Gordana Avatar
    Gordana

    Thanks for this reflection, I am looking forward to the rest of the series. We are indeed responsible for our unique threads, and for leveraging what we have to mend and not create further harm. Chag Sameach.

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